Why is this happening to me, is the most common question from someone with a cancer diagnosis. I really challenge you to change the question from Why to What. What am I going to do about this? You can beat yourself up wondering if you have done something. When did your immune system become weakened etc. But that thinking won’t change the fact of where you find yourself today and quite frankly it is wasted energy that you could be focusing on healing. More advice can be found within the Cancer Treatment Journal.